He said,"Hahaha I bet that slut must have been played a lot of times." I had asked him why he said that.He said,"Because you can hella tell. When a female plays a guy is because they got played and their hearts broken many times so the only thing they can do is turn into sluts." I was like,"WTH??? Maybe they just want to do it because there not ready to get into a serious relationship or relationships aren't their thing."He responded with,"Mm,like I said BOP!"Karen's thoughts on girls being called sluts and guys being called pimps really surprised me. Everything that she states though is valid and can be proven by any girl that you know.
Personally, I hate when guys play girls because I have seen that happen so many times with girls that I know and it's just sad. When the girls are the ones who are being played, the guy gets recognized by his friends or peers and they all act as if he did nothing wrong. In reality, that guy could have destroyed a girl's life to the fullest.
On the other hand, if the girls are the ones who are pimpin' then they are automatically labeled a slut when in fact, they aren't, they really just wanted to try something new I guess. Karen proposes that maybe the girls could have had their heart broken and they want to play around, but just because of that, it doesn't mean that people have the right to call a girl a slut if they know nothing about them. Either way, girls are judged by both guys and other girls.
Usually, a girl will call another girl a slut for the purpose that their jealous at how much game the other girl has. If a girl can pull a lot of guys then that doesn't make her a slut, she's just playing the game like every other guy on this planet and the other girls shouldn't be hating on that.
How come it's okay for a guy to do it, but then if a girl shows this kind of behavior, she is 'morally wrong' and a slut? That sucks for girls. All our business is put out there and they are humiliated by being labeled a title that shouldn't be theirs.
I think that the only way that a girl can be considered a slut is if she has slept around with so many guys and she has not even dated them yet. Only in that way can they be referred to by this derogatory word. If a girls is being called a slut for getting guys, then why don't the boys get called sluts as well. It is the same matter, but in their case, they just pimpin' on chicks. We do not have equality among the sexes since guys still have it easy to do as they please and be congratulated by their performances.
All I got to say is that guys need to stop calling girls sluts and girls need to stop with the jealousy amongst other girls.
Don't hate the playa, hate the game!
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